What's Your Starting Point ..... in developing your theology of sexuality:
Debates about human
sexuality within the church have left a lot of damage in their wake.  Internally,
churches have experienced the pain of division and fractured unity.  Ongoing
polarity has eroded trust and the capacity to engage with one another humbly and
generously.  In some cases, Christians judge one another's salvation
on the basis of their particular perspectives on sexuality.
Such enmity has deeply
painful consequences.  The witness of the church to a watching world
is compromised by our internal strife.  Many people feel alienated
from the church because of their perception of the church’s response to matters
of sexuality.  In particular, sexual minority persons legitimately
question whether the church could be a safe place for them to explore or
wrestle with their questions about faith, spirituality, and their
sexuality. 
In the midst of such turmoil, it is
critical to explore ways the church might recover a sense of unity in the
reality of diverse perspectives on sexuality.  Given that the authority
of Scripture is used as both a defense of a particular position and an attack
against an opposing position, might we find in our use of Scripture a place to
experience common ground together?  The Anglican Archbishop from
South Africa says, “What is important is the recognition that authority implies
relationship and is a dynamic process rather than a static rule. That this is
so is evidenced by the changing attitudes towards all forms of authority (both
ecclesial and secular) in the past twenty years.”[1]  If the authority of Scripture
was embraced as a dynamic process, enlivened by the Holy Spirit in each
particular time and place, could we become more generous in our capacity to
listen to how those who differ from us are engaging with the text?
The idea that two
persons who claim faith in Christ and high regard for the Scriptures can come
to different conclusions on a question such as, “What does faithful
discipleship look like for a same-sex oriented Christian?” can seem to be very
difficult for some to accept.  The reality, however, is that on the
basis of their engagement with primarily Scripture, supported by the
interpretive resources of tradition, reason, and experience, followers of
Christ come to different perspectives on many different questions of doctrine
and conduct. 
In the book, “The
Embrace of Eros:  Bodies, Desires and Sexuality in Christianity”,
David Jensen says, “What does the Bible say about sex?” many Christians
ask.  This seemingly simple question yields anything but a simple
answer.  The Bible says many sometimes conflicting things about sex,
so in some regards this is the wrong question to be asking.  Christians
ought to first ask, “What is the character of the book we call Scripture?”[2]  This
idea of the character of the book of Scripture can be viewed in different
ways.  Some consider the Bible to be a guidebook for sexual behavior.  Their
engagement with Scripture on the matter of sexuality is primarily to mine the
clear prohibitions regarding sexual activity and to articulate the general
principles that guide godly sex.  Others may view Scripture as
“insufficient, outmoded, or oppressive” on matters of sexuality.[3]  In
this case, Scripture is engaged with a hermeneutic of suspicion that seeks to
deconstruct patriarchy and hierarchy.  This view critiques
Scripture's lack of erotic justice.  A third assessment on the
character of Scripture is that it needs to be received through a narrative
framework.  A narrative framework prioritizes opening the imagination
to what God is revealing about himself.  It also opens the
possibility to consider this powerful gift he has given humanity through our
sexuality in both the texts that address sexual matters and those texts that do
not explicitly address sexuality.
Within these different
views, there can be different emphases and starting points.  The
first of two common starting points is creation order.  This
approach begins with the Genesis narratives of the creation account and
emphasizes the complementary creation of the human race through the male and
female binary.  This complementary relation of male and female builds
the foundation for their theology of sexuality. 
A second approach
emphasizes the Trinitarian nature of God and
specifically develops a theology of sexuality through the implications of the Incarnation.  This
approach will not have the same emphasis on the complementary role of
biological sex or gender, but will prioritize the relational nature of God and
the outpouring of self-giving love based not on need but on desire, and connect
the image of God in humanity to these characteristics.
Unlike many of the
debates over human sexuality, I am not trying to propose that one starting
point is correct and the other incorrect or that one starting point honours the
authority of Scripture while the other fails to do so.  Rather, I
want to demonstrate that the human interpretive process is always open to
critique regardless of the starting point.  In our differences in
theological starting point, we need the humility to acknowledge the limitations
and critiques of our preferred point of reference and be willing to engage the
insights and reflections from alternative starting points.  Such a
process of “iron sharpening iron” will enrich our journey of creating a
theology of sexuality that can breathe life into our current contextual
realities. 
Creation Order: 
The creation order
starting point is illustrated particularly significantly in two works that have
proven formational in the Catholic and Evangelical communities respectively.
Arguably the most
influential piece of writing with a creation order priority is, “Theology of
the Body”, written by Pope John Paul II.[4]  He
begins by tying Jesus’ discourse with the Pharisees around the question of
divorce with the accounts in Genesis.  It was the Pope’s position
that the Genesis accounts are the basis for any faithful anthropology or
theology of sexuality.  He says, “Following the narrative of Genesis,
we have seen that the “definitive” creation of man consists in the creation of
the unity of two beings.  Their unity denotes above all the identity
of human nature; their duality, on the other hand, manifests what on the basis
of this identity, constitutes the masculinity and femininity of created man.”[5]  “The
fundamental fact of human existence at every stage of its history is that God
“created them male and female.” He always creates them in this way and they are
always such.”[6]  He
infers the unacceptability of deconstructing of these binary categories when he
says under the heading “Man and Woman: A Gift for Each Other” , “The opposite of this “welcoming” or
“acceptance” of the other human being as gift would be a privation of the gift
itself.  Therefore, it would be a changing and even a reduction of
the other to an “object for myself” (an object of lust, of misappropriation
etc.).”[7]
For the evangelical
community in Canada, Stanley Grenz’ book, “Sexual Ethics”[8] has
been a trust-worthy guide in the tumultuous cultural landscape.  In
his chapter, “Male and Female: The Nature of Human Sexuality”, Grenz states,
“Sexuality refers to our fundamental existence as male and female.”; “Sexuality
comprises all aspects of the human person that are related to existence as male
and female.”; and “Sexuality is a powerful, deep, and mysterious aspect of our
being.  It constitutes a fundamental distinction between the two ways
of being human (i.e. as male or female).”[9]  Additionally,
he states, “Genesis 1: 27 declares, “male and female he created them.” There is
simply no other way to be created human, to exist as a human being, except as
an embodied person.  And embodiment means existence as a sexual
being, as male or female.”[10] 
The creation order
starting point that is developed in both “Theology of the Body” and Grenz’s “Sexual
Ethics” constructs a fundamentally heteronormative sexual ethics.  This
is clear when  Grenz addresses the matter of homosexuality.  He
says, “For Paul, then, the only proper model of sexual relations is that
patterned after the creation story in Genesis 1-2.  In keeping with
the injunctions of the Holiness Code, Paul concludes that this model is
natural, for it alone was instituted by the Creator.  Homosexual
relations, whether between men or women, are against nature, because they are
contrary to the pattern placed within creation itself.”[11]  He
further argues, “The application to the sex act is obvious.  Sexual
intercourse is intended to convey the union of two persons in their entirety as
two sexual beings: the two becoming one.  For this meaning to be
fully expressed, the physical act itself must be one whereby the dialectic of
sameness and difference is taken up into a union.  This occurs when
each of the partners contributes himself or herself in entirety, so that this
contribution results in a uniting of the two into a supplementary union.”[12]  For
Grenz, the creation narratives lay out a blueprint for human bonding that is
ordered by the differentiation of male and female.
The implications of a
creation order starting point can be seen in this statement, “We are not just
human beings. We are male and female human beings, and everything about us —
our role, drives, impulses, sources of satisfaction, sense of identity,
relationships, the whole social order — is in significant measure determined by
this biological fact. Tamper with sexual differentiation, deny it, and you
invite the whirlwind. You can't fool Mother Nature.”[13]
Next post:  A Challenge to the Creation Order Starting Point
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[1]
Ndungane, Njongonkulu, Abp “Scripture: what is at issue in Anglicanism
today?”  Anglican Theological Review 83 no 1 Wint 2001, p 12
[2]
David H. Jenson.  The Embrace of Eros: Bodies,
Desires, and Sexuality in Christianity ed. Margaret Kamitsuka (Minneapolis:
Fortress Press, 2010) p. 15
[3]
Ibid.  p.19
[4]
John Paul II.  Theology of the Body  Boston:
Pauline Books and Media, 1997.
[5]
Ibid. p.45
[6]
Ibid. p.74
[7]
Ibid. p. 70
[8]
Stanley J. Grenz, Sexual Ethics Louisville,
KY: Westminster/JKP, 1997
[9]
Ibid. p.21
[10]
Ibid. p. 27
[11]
Grenz p.230
[12]
Grenz p.236
[13]
Eliot Fremont-Smith, New
York Magazine, 7 January 1974.

I am very eager to read the rest of this series. Thank you for posting it.
ReplyDeleteVery interesting, Wendy. I look forward to reading the rest of this series.
ReplyDeleteI will admit, however, that the central topic bothers me in that the underlying question of How one interprets (or should interpret) what the Bible has to say about human sexuality tends to privilege what's written in the Bible over actual humans' experience of sexuality. This in itself is a central contributor to why the topic has become such a big issue, at least in my opinion. To stick to what you cover in this post, the complementarian emphasis on differences between male and female ignores, invisibilizes, and even invalidates many who are gender non-conforming (and not just the non-heterosexual ones). In fairness, I suspect a trinitarian/incarnational model has its own problems in this regards (one of the interesting things I've found in reading Serano's "Whipping Girl" is how those who subscribe to a strictly social constructionist views of gender can invisibilize and alienate trans people and particularly trans women.)
So I guess to me, an equally important question to starting points -- and I admit this extends to matters beyond human sexuality -- is how does one handle the situation in which the conclusions one's interpretive approach reaches don't seem to match the empirical evidence of one's or others' lived experiences?
Perhaps that's something you'll cover as the series continues. If not, I hope you'll consider addressing it at some point.
Thanks Jarred, as always, for your insightful comments. This particular series does focus on theological starting points arising from a scriptural emphasis.
ReplyDeleteHowever, just to keep you in suspense a bit, I will be posting a series (after this one) about developing an ethical framework for generous spaciousness - and this will ask and explore the very matter you raise here. Namely, what epistomological weight does our experience carry in developing a framework for our sexual ethics.
Thanks Jarred, for articulating what I was thinking, only much more clearly than I could.
ReplyDeleteWendy, I think this series will be a valuable resource for people who wish to work their way through with the humility that's required to do so.